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sexy_romulan ([personal profile] sexy_romulan) wrote2007-05-07 10:12 pm

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Could somebody please tell me how one goes about not caring? Because I would really like to know.

[identity profile] amazon-syren.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Honey, what's going on?

[identity profile] rintheamazing.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
Not sure. But let me know if you work it out, cause I could use that skill.

[identity profile] thiyavat.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 06:22 am (UTC)(link)
I find that if I'm angry, if I refuse to allow myself to act on it, sometimes later in similar circumstances the emotion doesn't bother surfacing. Not sure if that might work for not-caring too, if in fact this technique works for anyone other than myself. In any case, feel free to e-mail me if it would be useful to you. :)

[identity profile] akeru-deshou.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe you can tell me how to care. haha. Are you angry or discouraged? I think it makes a difference how you act.

[identity profile] owl-of-minerva.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 05:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not able to. But distractions are good. And listening to loud music.

Hang in there.

[identity profile] arndis.livejournal.com 2007-05-08 06:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm no good at not caring either. Eventually I'll get most of the way to apathy, because I can only do so much futile flailing. But in the long run, the only solution is to make the irritant go away by fixing it or running away.